1. Being aware of what someone has done and still forgiving him.  Total forgiveness is achieved only when we acknowledge what was done without any denial or covering up – and still refuse to make the offender pay for his crime. Total Forgiveness Experience by RTKendal

This can be a hard one.  Especially when we want to hold on to those mistakes made and use them later on to make a point or put the knife in a little deeper to make one feel worse than they already do.  Sometimes it is done subconsciously. But I believe the Spirit will remind us just before we let it out.  We are not perfect and never will be…that was Jesus, remember.  

But I tend to agree with the statement.  We can’t hold onto those mistakes our partner makes just to throw it at them later.  It’s bondage; can’t let it go.  It’s just rapped around in your head, which can give you a headache, stomachache, backache and many more ailments in the body.  You must let it go to remain free.

 Remember the Word tells us in John 8:7  “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone …”

Our God given marriage is too important to our communities and children to just let it go.  I guess we will always have something to work on.  That’s what counts…never giving up and never giving in.

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