Some say disagreement is not a good thing in a marriage. After all, it causes tension and possible separation. You go to your corner and he goes to his. But I say, as the second time around with the same man, it is growth. It is not what is said or done, but how we choose to handle it. I choose to look at it as growth (once the fire goes out). That’s right, growth for me. Always asking the Lord to fix me. So He reminds me of different things about myself in all situations that could be worked on. Therefore, at the end of the day my calm spirit is back and rejoicing that I made it through. I guess that’s why I don’t listen to others on how to handle my marriage because every marriage is beautiful in it’s own way. Embrace the special love you have.